What can I say about today's event?
Taylor and I went to Pump It Up! for a moms event. Overall, she had a really good time and wasn't quite ready to leave. Me...overall I left happy but there were some stressful moments within our 90 minutes of playtime.
We arrive, check in, get our nametags and pay. Get Taylor's shoes off and I suppose I expected way too much from her because normally she's off running around when we go there for birthday parties. Today was a bit different. The last time we were at PIU was for Jackson's 5th birtday in September and I suppose it's different seeing your big brothers and his friends running around and having a dedicated adult answer to your every whim than going with mom, no brothers and kids who you only have seen occasionally. What was I thinking?!?!?! OF COURSE she'd be a bit skiddish. But we press through.
Anyway, after about 10-15 minutes of sitting back and coaxing, Taylor finally decides that she'll stop being a cling-on and venture off. She saw the other kids (older and younger) sliding on the 2 big slides and bouncing in the other bounce houses and running around having fun. So she tried her very best to get me to up the slide with her. I wanted to see if she could do it herself, afterall, she's almost 3, she plays and climbs at the park like a champ and frankly...I didn't have my shoes off yet. So she gets up to the top of the big slide following the "big girls" (they were older 3s, kiddos who had been there before and 4 year olds). Gets to the top and FREAKS OUT! She's screaming and crying and won't go down by herself. So I get my shoes off, climb up there and set her in my lap and take her down. She wants to go again but wants me to take her. So I go up with her and she wants to sit with me. I don't put her onto my lap but instead put her between my legs and pushed her down the slide...she LOVED it! Then I came down.
Forward about 30-35 minutes, and she's running around and having a good time. She's still checking in with me every so often but at least I am able to carry on some decent conversations with my mom friends without having a cling-on yelling "mommy mommy mommy" every 10 seconds. I get her into another bounce house where she started warming up to others. Then it's time for the big slide again (her choice NOT mine) so she gets up there, this time taking a sliding mat with her. Makes it all the way over to the edge and FREAKS OUT again! I get up onto the slide from the bottom and try and coax her down. No dice! She's not going for it and she's not budging! Jenny and her daughter Keira come up on the slide and Jenny asks Taylor if she'd like to slide down with Keira. Through tears and choking up Taylor says yes and the two girls come whooshing down. Hee hee, Jenny did have to push Taylor down though because she wasn't moving on her own.
This brings us up to 50 minutes into our play session and Taylor is very comfortable going up the slide herself but still not too sure about coming down. Keira tried to get Taylor to slide down with her again but she wasn't having any of it. Here is a small video of her sliding with Katrinka (Alicia's mom) because she wasn't going to make it down on her own.
Finally, one hour and 10 minutes into our play session, Taylor overcame her ultimate fear...I think something clicked with her that she could navigate the slide and the other bounce houses after she went through the obstacle course on her own because here's a TOTALLY different girl sliding down the slide.
We stayed for the full 90 minutes of our allotted jump time and Taylor warmed up so much that she and her new friend Jade ran around following each other up and down the slide. Listen to those squeals of delight!
All in all, a good day and thanks to my friends in Meetup Moms of Tucson, both Taylor and I walked out of there with smiles on our faces instead of tears!
14 years ago